Make up your own mind
Most advice is what other people find helpful for them, but it may not apply to you.
There is something you can learn, but you can't take their exact circumstance and apply it to yourself. If you get advice, decide if it is true in your context and figure out how you can apply it.
The most dangerous part of receiving advice is that the person won't be around when the advice doesn't apply to you anymore.
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