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Empathy has boundaries – We naturally care more about people we feel close to or identify with.

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Here’s a summary of "Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst" by "Robert M. Sapolsky" in 17 easy-to-understand points:

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Empathy

Empathy

Empathy breeds compassion, connection, and love. It brings people closer and makes others feel understood and less alone.

Empathetic people genuinely care, but they also respect and understand the boundaries and privacy of the people that surround them.

You lose all your boundaries

Boundaries are useful with people you care about, but in a codependent person's heart, 'boundaries' is a very negative word. 

They think 'the moment I care about you, I drop all my boundaries'. In other words, you give more credence to their story than to yours.

#2: The Law Of Narcissism

#2: The Law Of Narcissism

We are all narcissists, some more (deep narcissists) or less (functional narcissists) than others. We are naturally self-absorped and mostly sensitive to ourselves. Our self-esteem is developed during childhood. We also naturally possess empathy

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