I am in control of my destiny

You have to make your goals shorter. Short-term "process goals" that you always finished and felt good about.

Procees goals can encourage us to enjoy the present moment. They are brief and achievable. Set up process goals and fun tasks and projects so we never had to worry about the future...

Nobody can set limits on what you can or can’t achieve without your permission. Nobody knows you like you know yourself. You are in control of your own destiny.

Too often, we take the most important things for granted: food, shelter, family, education. 

No matter how bad a day might seem, there's always something we can be grateful for. 

Remind youself of your luck and the beauty we already possess.