Compatibility is the natural alignment of lifestyle choices and values of two people. A youth minister and a drug dealer are probably incompatible, and I doubt many end up dating each other.
If I value women who are intelligent and educated and I meet a high school dropout who is attracted to guys who have big muscles and like to hunt deer, then we have a fundamental incompatibility that will probably never be overcome and we will never date one another. At least, not for long.
Compatibility is about the long-term potential of two people.
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Many dating advice glosses over the concepts of compatibility and chemistry, assuming most people have an intuitive grasp of what these words mean and why they’re so important to a successful relationship. Everyone assumes we know what compatibility and chemistry mean and whether we have them or not.
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