You Are Missing The Alignment

Accountability isn’t about shame—it’s about truth. The mirror doesn’t lie, and neither should you. When you finally face the facts about your habits, excuses, and choices, you gain power. That’s the first rep.

Start where you are. Write it down. Say it out loud. Get brutally honest.

• When you have a choice between telling the truth or protecting someone’s feelings, it’s better to go with the truth, in a respectful way.
• Default to blaming yourself and what you control rather than looking for outside excuses. 
• Check the sources of your beli...

We live in a world of confirmation bias and cognitive dissonance, where our belief patterns bend reality without our realizing it. Each one of us may have a different version of the truth, that may not be what others believe. One has to reflect within and mov...