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Stop Being a People-Pleaser 🚫

Stop Being a People-Pleaser 🚫

Trying to please everyone at work makes you look weak, not kind. Learn to say NO and prioritize your own needs.

🔹 “You can’t be respected if you’re always trying to be liked.”

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Speak with Confidence, Not Doubt 🎤

Speak with Confidence, Not Doubt 🎤

Stop using weak phrases like "I think" or "I'm not sure, but…" Be direct and assertive.

🔹 “Your words shape how others perceive you—use them wisely.”

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Stop Apologizing for Everything! ❌

Stop Apologizing for Everything! ❌

Women tend to over-apologize for things that are not their fault. Save apologies for real mistakes.

🔹 “Confidence is eroded one unnecessary 'sorry' at a time.”

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Claim Your Accomplishments 🏆

Claim Your Accomplishments 🏆

Stop saying "It was a team effort" when you did the work. Take credit for your achievements.

🔹 “If you don’t own your success, someone else will.”

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Dress for the Role You Want 👗

Dress for the Role You Want 👗

Your appearance impacts how seriously you are taken. Dress professionally and with authority.

🔹 "Your outfit is a message before you even speak."

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Be Direct—Don’t Hint 💡

Be Direct—Don’t Hint 💡

Men communicate directly, while women often hint. Be clear and firm in your requests.

🔹 "Say what you mean. People aren't mind readers."

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Stop Being the Office Caretaker 🧹

Stop Being the Office Caretaker 🧹

Don't take on tasks like cleaning up, making coffee, or organizing parties unless it benefits your career.

🔹 "Being helpful is great. Being taken for granted is not."

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Set Boundaries and Stick to Them 🚧

Set Boundaries and Stick to Them 🚧

If you're always available, people will expect you to always be available. Protect your time.

🔹 "Saying no isn't mean - it's self-respect."

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Avoid Too Much Self-Deprecation 🤦‍♀️

Avoid Too Much Self-Deprecation 🤦‍♀️

Don't joke about how bad you are at something—it makes others believe it.

🔹 "If you don't take yourself seriously, no one else will."

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Negotiate Your Salary 💰

Negotiate Your Salary 💰

Women often settle for lower pay.

Always negotiate – men do it without hesitation.

🔹 "Your salary reflects what you accept, not what you deserve."

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Sit at the Table, Not on the Sidelines 🏢

Sit at the Table, Not on the Sidelines 🏢

- Take a visible seat in meetings. - Don't sit against the wall like you don’t belong. - Act confident and own your place at the table.

- Avoid sitting alone. Join in group discussions, even if you don't have much to say. - Speak up and share your ideas or ask questions. Don't let your fear hold you back.

🔹 “If you act like you don’t belong, others will believe it too.”

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Eliminate “Just” and “Sorry” from Emails 📧

Eliminate “Just” and “Sorry” from Emails 📧

Saying: "Just checking in" or "Sorry to bother you" can make you appear timid. Have confidence in your message.

Remember: Assertiveness is not unprofessional; it is a necessary communication skill.

Eliminate these phrases to come across more confidently and effectively.

🔹 Assertiveness isn’t rude—it’s professional.

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Take Risks, Even If You’re Not Ready 🎯

Take Risks, Even If You’re Not Ready 🎯

It’s okay to take risks, even if you’re not fully prepared. Men often apply for jobs when they meet 60% of the qualifications, while women wait for 100%. Don't be afraid to go for it.

🔹 “If you wait to be ‘ready,’ you’ll miss the opportunity.”

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Build a Strong Network 🤝

Build a Strong Network 🤝

Women often rely on hard work alone to get ahead. Relationships matter as much as skills.

🔹 “Who you know can open doors, but how you show up keeps them open.”

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Get Comfortable with Self-Promotion 🏅

Get Comfortable with Self-Promotion 🏅

In today's world, success isn't just about working hard. It's also about making sure people are aware of your accomplishments. Don't be afraid to talk about your achievements!

  • Self-promotion is not bragging, it's necessary.
  • Don't downplay your hard work and talents.
  • Be confident and share your successes with others.

Remember, people won't know about your achievements unless you tell them. Embrace self-promotion as a way to advance your goals and build your confidence. 🚀

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The Power of Disagreement 🔝

The Power of Disagreement 🔝

💭 "Disagreeing doesn't mean being rude- it shows critical thinking."

🔹 Agreeing just to please someone is not the wisest move in discussions.

🔹 Disagreement is not confrontation or disrespect- it's a sign of intelligence in action.

🔹 Constructive disagreement can lead to creative solutions and progress.

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Ask for What You Want 🏆

Ask for What You Want 🏆



Promotions, raises, better projects—nothing comes unless you ask.


🔹 "If you don't ask, the answer is always no."

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<p><br></p><p>Men state their ...

Men state their choices. Women explain them. Be brief and confident.

🔹 “Confidence is clarity—stop justifying your every move.”

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Don't Wait for Permission to Lead 🏁

Don't Wait for Permission to Lead 🏁

Take initiative instead of waiting for someone to tell you that you're ready.

🔹 "Leaders don't wait to be chosen--they step up."

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Success Comes from Action, Not Perfection 🚀

Success Comes from Action, Not Perfection 🚀

Life is too short to overthink everything. Sometimes, the best solution is to just take action and adjust along the way. As saying goes, "Done is better than perfect."

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Author: Lois P. Frankel

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