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Hope Is F*cked

Hope often stems from avoiding pain and seeking pleasure, which can lead to destructive behaviors.

Relying on hope can prevent us from confronting reality and taking meaningful action.

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His style is really direct — kind of like a friend shaking your shoulders and saying, “Get real with yourself.” His work focuses a lot on accepting limitations, handling pain, finding meaning, and letting go of unrealistic expectations.

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