The Real You: Are You Shrinking, Hiding, or Dimming? - Deepstash

The Real You: Are You Shrinking, Hiding, or Dimming?

Pay attention to your self-esteem, energy, and joy.

If you feel like you’ve become a smaller version of yourself to survive the relationship, it’s a deep sign it may be killing your spirit.

Relationships should help you be more yourself, not less.

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