I realize that the good, the bad and the downright ugly events are all a part of who I've become. A greater life requires you to find your greatness. Greatness is about becoming the greatest version of yourself.

Be Better Than Who I was Yesterday.

"Self love is the balance between accepting yourself as you are while knowing you deserve better, and then working towards it."

Change the way you think, feel, speak and act, and you begin to change your world.To bring an idea into existence, or rather, into your perception, you must match its vibrational frequency. This is why when you truly believe in something and act as if it were already true, you increase the chance of it coming to you in your physical reality.If we feel good, we'll think good thoughts, and as a result we'll take positive actions.

Good vibes are simply higher states of vibration. The feelings we put out into the universe will be returned to us through matching vibrations. So, if you send out feelings of joy, then you'll be given more things to feel joyful about. By taking positive actions and changing your mindset, you'll manifest greater things. By loving yourself, you'll live a life you love.

"Fake It.Till You Make It."Muhammad Ali said, "To be a great champion, you must believe you are the best. If you're not, pretend you are." A particular way to enhance your confidence and feel better about where you're going, it becomes a useful technique. This imagined confidence will then gradually start to become genuine confidence, and the closer you get to it through matching vibrations, the more genunie it becomes.

Sometimes you have to unplug yourself from the world for a moment, so you can reset yourself.

"Stop trying to impress people.Impress yourself.Stretch yourself.Test yourself. Be the best version of you that you can be."

"Failure wasn't final. But they're only final if you quit."Anyone who has accomplished anything great has faced big challenges or failures.

"What you consume, consumes you;what consumes you, controls your life."

Before you complain about school, remember that some people can't even get an education. Before you complain about getting fat, remember that some people don't even have any food. Before you complain about your job, remember that some people don't even have any money. Before you complain about cleaning the house, remember that some people don't even have any shelter. Before you complain about washing the dishes, remember that some people don't even have any water. Before you complain about all these things, without realizing how blessed you are, just be thankful for a minute for what you have.

"Greatness starts with being grateful."You can't feel bad while you're feeling thankful. It's much easier to focus on burdens than on gifts; to devote your attention to the things you don't have, rather than the things you do have.

Remember, there might be many things in your world that are going wrong. Yet there are also many things that are going right. The more you count your blessings, the more blessings you'll have to count.

Ignoring negative emotions is like keeping poison in your system. Learn to understand everything that you feel. The aim isn't to force positive thoughts, but to transform the negative ones into something healthier, so you can feel better.It's important to realize that we create our own sadness by attaching negative conclusions to these past experiences in our subconscious mind.

You can't move forward with thoughts that hold you back.

Be the best version of you that YOU can be. How can you learn to truly love yourself? How can you transform negative emotions into positive ones? Is it possible to find lasting happiness?  In this book, Instagram guru Vex King answers all of these questions and more. Vex overcame adversity to become a source of hope for thousands of young people, and now draws from his personal experience and his intuitive wisdom to inspire you to:  - practise self-care, overcome toxic energy and prioritize your wellbeing  - cultivate positive lifestyle habits, including mindfulness and meditation  - change your beliefs to invite great opportunities into your life - manifest your goals using tried-and-tested techniques - overcome fear and flow with the Universe - find your higher purpose and become a shining light for others  In this book, Vex will show you that when you change the way you think, feel, speak and act, you begin to change the world.

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Vex King is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Vex King has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Vex King's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

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Good Vibes, Good Life

<ol><li>Focus on your potential instead of your limitations.</li><li>Determine to know the truth about yourself.</li><li> Distinguish between who you are and what you do.</li><li>Find something you like to do and do it well, then do it over and over.</li><li> Replace self criticism with regular, positive self talk.</li><li>Replace fear of failure with clear pictures of yourself functioning successfully and happily.</li><li>Dare to be a little eccentric.</li><li> Make the best possible peace with your parents.</li><li>Determine to integrate the body and spirit.</li><li> Determine to live above neurotic guilt.</li></ol>

Twelve Rules For Building Self Confidence 

11. Cultivate people who help you grow.12. Refuse to allow rejection to keep you from taking the initiative with people

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There is no value judgement more important to man -- no factor more decisive in his psychological development and motivation -- than the estimate he passes on himself.

Our success at friendship, business, sports, love indeed, at nearly every enterprise we attempt is largely determined by our self image. People who have a confidence in their personal worth seem to be magnets for success and happiness. Good things drop into their laps regularly, their relationships are long lasting, their projects are usually carried to completion, and they have a way of enjoying the pleasures that the day brings. To use Blake's phrase, they "catch joy on the wings".

Self Confidence And Discovery Of Joy

On the other hand, some people seem to be magnets for failure and unhappiness. Their plans go awry, they have a way of torpe doing their own successes and nothing seems to work out for them. In the counselling office where I work we see many such persons. In most instances my colleagues and I find that their problems stem from a difficulty with self acceptance. And when we are able to help them gain more confidence, many of their psychological troubles take care of themselves.

Other Side Of Low Confidence 

One of the pleasures of doing counselling over a number of decades is that occasionally one sees former clients who have made remarkable progress. A person with whom I worked many years ago and who has been dropped by my office. I recall the slouched young woman she once was. As she had sat in front of me week after week she had blushed, stumbled in her speech and looked at the floor. Her body language said, "I don't even deserve to be talking to you". She tended to lose jobs, relationship went sour and she had troubles in almost every area of her life. As failures were connected to her.

Can Self Image Be Changed

Now, almost 10 years later, the woman has obviously changed her self estimate, and she is a startlingly transformed woman. She is beautifully poised and her body language telegraphs how good she feels about herself. She talks about animation about the successful business she has started, she is married to a man she loves and she has several long term friends. She has change not only her look but also self confidence and judgement about herself.

Changed Self Image 

I believe fervently in our species and have no patience with the current fashion of running down the human being as a useful part of nature. On the contrary, we are a spectacular, splendid manifestation of life.

....you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.

1. Tapping your Capacities2. Discovering your inner self3. Stepping off the Treadmill4. Aiming for Personal Excellence

Four Fundamentals For Developing Self-confidence 

The only difference between the best performance and the worst performance is the variation in our self talk.

"If you train your mind to search for the positive things about other people, you will be surprised at how many good things you can observe in them and comment upon."

James Joyce's classic novel Ulysses depicts the stream of consciousness moving through the mind of Leopold Bloom and others during a 24 hours period. Joyce's work makes poignantly clear that even when we are not talking to others, we are always carrying on a conversation with ourselves. If I could plug a set of headphones into the minds of my clients and listen in on the statement they make to themselves all day, the majority of them would be negative:" I'm late. My hair looks terrible & ugly. "One good daily exercise for building self Confidence is to practice more friendly inner dialogue.

Improving Your Inner Dialogue

I would like to emphasize that one does not necessarily require a therapist to engage in self discovery . Freud and Jung analyzed themselves, and many of us can do the same. Here are some simple suggestions for learning more about your inner self. 1. Keep a journal 2. Arrange to spend time alone3. Note that things that make you distinctive4. Regularly redefine yourself5. Look for someone in whom you can confide.

Investigating Your Inner Self

Helps readers build inner strength, handle rejection, develop uniqueness, keep flaws in perspective, make friends with one's body, find a place to excel, expand one's network of love and help others become more confident, in a book that includes fascinating stories and anecdotes, showing how to increase self-confidence without falling into the trap of self-worship. Original.

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Discover how you can: build inner strength, handle rejection, develop your uniqueness, keep your flaws in perspective, make friends with your body, find a place to excel, expand your network of love, and help others become more confident. These and other practical guidelines, along with fascinating stories and anecdotes, show how you can increase your self-confidence without falling into the trap of self-worship. A book to help you succeed at being yourself.

Good Vibes, Good Life

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